It sounds stupid, right? If you are cheated, you are not bad or wrong but he who cheated you is definitely BAD n WRONG...MOST IMPORTANT IS THAT YOU DON'T CHEAT! But then, to be perpetually suspicious is USELESS, and makes one go nuts and so much stressing... If you spend your life building walls, you will never have time to go into the field to smell the fragrances of life and enjoy what Mother nature has for us...