Between girl and boy friends too... the jealous boy friend will ask a question, answer himself, and use his 'assuming answer' to attack... please.. it is unkind to be so..

One cannot be the judge, the lawyer and the accuser at the same time... while the defender keeps quiet or not even given chance to open her mouth...

To be happier and healthier.. remember not to make this mistake...  It is a very bad habit to continue being unreasonable and accusing what he thought is the correct answer..  Assuming is too bad...  and exaggerating is bad too...

The more one becomes unreasonable, the more your spouse or friend becomes unbearable of your character.
Where is there happiness if one keeps on attacking on 'NOTHING' yet expecting answers from it....

Spend time to communicate.. spend some time to know the truth... spend some time to really understand..
Remember... sometimes misunderstandings brewed under such situations bring bloodshed.. and kill lives..

Remember.. speak good or just keep silent... Refrain from ACCUSING.. and FINGER POINTING... Don't ever have such bad habits....



SET HER FREE... ACCUSE HER OR HIM NOT... THIS IS NOT LOVE...