Harsh and condemning critics or accusations can only make things worst,and they can never solve any problems... It matters much the way how we put things right... Here is a story of how good speeches can solve all problems...

A man has 2 friends, One is the goddess of wealth while the other is goddess of poverty. One day the goddesses both visited his house.  The goddess of wealth will bring him much wealth and happiness but the other goddess will then be bringing poverty and disasters.

So he was thinking of how to make the goddess of wealth to stay and goddess of poverty to leave his home...

After several cups of tea, he told the goddess of wealth that when she walked in his house, she was looking so marvelously beautiful.  But then, he laughingly told the goddess of poverty that she looks so glamorously charming the back view of her while walking, with her golden flowing long hair....

Both of them were so happy and satisfied with his way of addressing... Knowing his message, the goddess of poverty left his house smiling and happy while the other one stayed.

Thus it is good never to attack or criticize or past unkind remarks to just anyone, especially our loved ones...

Our speeches matter a lot...