There are always 3 answers or 3 possibilities, 3 probabilities, 3 situations.. 3 stages, .. what people think of, what he actually is and what he think he is...

Heart 1 -  what people think it is
Heart 2 - what the person think is
Heart 3 - what the real thing is

Possibility 1 - what people think you are
Possibility 2 - what you think who you are
Possibility 3 - what who you really are

Situation 1 - what people think that situation is
Situation 2 - what you think the situation is
Situation 3 - what the real situation is.