Cute? this is just a picture..for fun... but in reality, if you do this homework.. hmm, you will be the happiest husband or wife... talk less, argue less, do more, love more....

She will give you her heart... her everything... if you know how to pamper and love her for real.. by actions, deliver your promises.. and no meaningless arguments... this world will be so much a better place to live... this is your HOMEWORK...

Do you know that a well-loved woman will go to depths to make her man happy and shinning? try.. you just need to count those blessings... LOVE HEALS... LOVE MAKES MIRACLES.. JUST SOW LOVE WHERE YOU THINK LOVE IS WORTH SOWING... water it with care and sweet loving positive words...

Good health only belongs to those who knows how to keep good healthy relationship.... just any relationship... inside the family or outside...

How long have you not hug your loved one so close? This is your homework...

Happiness is like a kiss... you must share it to enjoy it... so if you have chosen your partner.. just be the only one or let her be the only one... life will be so much more meaningful and lovely.. trust me... THIS IS WHAT I CALL GOOD RELATIONSHIP...

Yes, spend more time to get to know each other... You will know that by exploring positively... everyone benefits... this is the promise that all of you will be happier and healthier...

Share... talk.. whisper some romantic passionate tender sweet words as such shown below... hmmm, it works miracles for everyone...

Husband.. your duty is to make her happy... wife, your duty is to make him happy too....

Hugs and kisses.... spend more time on positive actions... talk less, do more... forget just any arguments.... you will understand that you will be so much more happier and healthier...

For many couples... try to relax and enjoy your days together... never spoil your days by touching on negative assuming answers or accusations... it will spoil everything...

When someone throws a question... wait till they answer... it is dangerous to give negative assuming answers.... for eg.. where have you been? oh, i know... must be to see your ex... and keep on emphasizing the wrong accusations....

It is not wise to throw a question to his spouse...
and start answering his own question..
how?  Answering with negative assuming...
and worst of all, keep on emphasizing his own answers....

why is it dangerous to answer assuming negative answers?
The answer correct or wrong, will be reacted on...
The more one self-affirm such negative accusations..
the more one provoke and agitate the one you are talking to...

So, actually you are planting a bomb..
waiting for it to explode... yes, it will explode..
Always false accusations become so real that
the person will continue to attack and abuse human rights....

Your spouse will be left with no chance to explain...
Your spouse will be left with no choice but to explode...
So, one can imagine how destructive the explosion can be..
if it has been kept and stored for years... raw and wrong accusations....

Please, for your own sake and your family...
do not repeat or attempt to make such expensive mistakes...
Accusing is wrong.. abusing is wrong..
Never force someone to eat RAW accusations....

Am telling you all....
All relationships...just any relationships....
remember never to throw a question, answer the question yourself..
keep on repeating your own answers and create something out of nothing...

Look around... hear a little...
among brothers and sisters...
among parents and kids...
among colleges, among friends...
among husband and wife...

NEVER ACCUSE NEGATIVELY AND CONTINUE ATTACKING WHILE THE OTHER ONE IS SILENT OR WANT TO REMAIN ALONE.... PREVENTION IS MUCH SMARTER THAN CURE...

Hugs and kisses... spend more time.... take more time with your loved ones... it solves much emotional problems and misunderstandings.... and saves collapsing relationships... and hugs and kisses are good for health... priceless yet we don';t need to pay a single cent..

Be the little candle to light up people's life... don't blow off the light from their hands....

Be grateful and thankful to our parents.. this is what it means...

Be the pen to write good words, good phrases, good articles, good books... to share and care.. write about love...

Be the hand that gives.. be the hand that saves... be the hand that gathers... be the hand that provides... be the hand to relax your loved ones'muscles... be the hand to clean for them... be the hand to cook healthy delicious foods.. we can do them all...

Love in the air... happy are those who understand love, practice love, spread love and be in love.. and well loved....

Love her.. hurt not... LOVE IS THE ANSWER TO EVERYTHING.. IT CAN MELT EVEN THE HARDEST HEART...lov

Don't be such a bully... one sow and reap himself... so nothing is left un-noticed at the end of the daysssssssssss.....

Plan holidays for your loved ones... go for holidays...

Remember the good times... always... happy memories boost our immune system... happier people live longer and healthier...

Lets put in effort.. to put things right... This world is so beautiful and more than enough for not just one to live happily and healthy... The earth is enough for all of us to survive well and good...

Say nothing... just hug.. feel each other... remember.. there is love in this world... be happier... solve problems.. be a solver..not an exaggerator... so that living becomes more meaningful and healthier...

Husband and wife can hug..
Friends can hug..
Boy and girl friends can hug too..
More important.. parents and kids...

Sometimes she is drunk for some reasons... but hurt not your liver or kidney... It isn't the right way to solve things... It can be a 'he' too... hahaha..

Being married to an unreasonable wife or husband will either kill his or her natural state[if one is weak] ...or make the other a philosopher[if one is exceptionally strong]...

Hahaha... just lie still like this lazy cat... holding deaf ears to insults and accusations....

Between girl and boy friends too... the jealous boy friend will ask a question, answer himself, and use his 'assuming answer' to attack... please.. it is unkind to be so..

One cannot be the judge, the lawyer and the accuser at the same time... while the defender keeps quiet or not even given chance to open her mouth...

To be happier and healthier.. remember not to make this mistake...  It is a very bad habit to continue being unreasonable and accusing what he thought is the correct answer..  Assuming is too bad...  and exaggerating is bad too...

The more one becomes unreasonable, the more your spouse or friend becomes unbearable of your character.
Where is there happiness if one keeps on attacking on 'NOTHING' yet expecting answers from it....

Spend time to communicate.. spend some time to know the truth... spend some time to really understand..
Remember... sometimes misunderstandings brewed under such situations bring bloodshed.. and kill lives..

Remember.. speak good or just keep silent... Refrain from ACCUSING.. and FINGER POINTING... Don't ever have such bad habits....



SET HER FREE... ACCUSE HER OR HIM NOT... THIS IS NOT LOVE...

Many relationships went stale because of this... he ask the question, answer himself and use the answer to attack his souse... at first the spouse will keep quiet to listen and not answer... but he insist again, accusing even louder.. so his spouse will lose her temper.... that is always how fights start...

This is just a reminder to all of us..
To check whether we all make that mistake...

Here is one example....

The husband will start..
Where did you go?
You must be going to see him...
And spending your time and money on him...

Then continue again..
You bad woman.. you bitch..
and continue accusing and attacking
while the wife kept silent..

Look here is the point..
The husband ask a question..
answer the question himself..
come to a conclusion, and use the conclusion to attack..

Is it funny? no.. it is not...
Negatives will brew inside someone
who has no reasoning or logic...
Keeping silent doesn't mean that one is agreeing..

It is just that his spouse wants no involving
to fight or to argue over small matters...
Remember.. it isn't wise at all...
It can happen between husband and wife..
friends, boy and girl friends, parents and child...

It's ok to cry if you are in pain... remember, tears are prayers too.. they travel to God when we can't speak...

SO STOP WORRYING...

If you don't take the most out of love, love will take out most of you... that is why love has killed more than any disease...

It is so true... someone who never make any mistakes never even tried... or cried... but don't stop at your mistakes, move forward....

Be a giver always... even if it means you will go hungry for your next meal... just give...

It's okay not to be okay.. but just don't stay too long there....

The goodness of a person spreads in all direction...

A man is great by deeds, not by birth....

It is the WISDOM in that person that shows HIS STRENGTH not his body size or his adornments......

It is the MORAL of that man which earns one's respect and honor, not RICHNESS OR WEALTH...

It is the SPEECH of that person that will dress him up SMART AND COOL.., not the coat or his hair style...

Happiness should not be built on one person only... it is too fragile.. and not lasting....

The difference between success and failure...

What is hardship that you know of? barefoot.... under the hot sun... working...crying... struggling for living

The white flower will blossom with purity... with truth.. with faith.. yes.. BECAUSE OF TRUE LOVE.. it survives...

I love munching on Lecithin E.... several tablets a time.. for youth and great anti-oxidant...

Fill your heart with flowers of tender care... let the fragrances fill you whole being, making you a better being.... happier and healthier...

If you have any excuses in life... think about her... if you have any complains in life, think about her... if you have any worries in life, think about her...

Be the eagle who sees far, see all, fly high, aim high...

MOVE ON... WALK OUT your history and CREATE the next chapter in your life...

If it wasn't for the pain I felt yesterday, I would not be the person I am today....

True love can't be covered... it shines through... glass or space... air or water... it is brighter than light....